To the friends and family of Doug Cloward

Saturday, April 26, Doug was admitted to the hospital for a severe case of pneumonia. Later he was diagnosed with mantel cell lymphoma leukemia.

We have been receiving many emails and phone calls expressing love and prayers in behalf of Doug. We have set up this blog for updates on Doug's progress. Thank you all for your overwhelming support and care!

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Leadership, Love and Me





Greetings.

Here again to tell you bald is beautiful (if you have no options) and sunsets on the mountain are beautiful even if you do have options. Back at the office from a fantastic weekend with my sweetheart. Today I focused on plans for the Leadership Conference, giving the Leadership Principle for the Directors call, coordinating with several Leaders from across the country and planning for Reunion opening night. Yes, it was a very full day, just like yours, and I hope you enjoyed your busyness as much as I did.

The day’s focus on Leadership left me with some impressions. First, how vitally important good leaders are in our business and our lives. They are often the “spark plug” to our understanding, commitments and action. And they play an important catalytic role in our success. I was also struck with the reality that even leaders need leaders, who need leaders and so on. This means that all leaders are ultimately followers, empowered by leaders' influence, training and expectations. I thought about our ultimate life leader, even the Savior Jesus Christ and how His leadership taught us how to live and lead. His training was simple -- it was His gospel of love. That gospel He also called His yoke. A yoke is something we use to lighten or balance our load. It makes it easier to carry. This gave way to the thought that great leaders provide yokes for their team members. They show the way to use the yoke (system) by doing it (example) and then they teach the principles and practical practices of using the yoke. He and they teach us how to be and how to achieve our purpose in business and in life.

It is also clear that we are all leaders and leading – self, children, team members and strangers. We must be careful to do the right things. If we teach incorrect principles, by precept or example, we may set in place false assumptions that may lead to false traditions and roads that do not lead our followers to success or happiness. So, I am examining my leadership and my principles to make certain that I am not following false principles or traditions, and that I am teaching only truth and correct principles. I invite my associates to consider doing the same thing. This is akin to sharpening your leadership saw.

On another front, the last couple of days I have been focusing on my sweetheart and her relentless service, love and support. I have noticed, more clearly, her countless services, kindnesses and how she is the perfect helpmete for me. Further, I have come to understand how much of what she does is unsung, unrecognized, even by those she serves most – me. So, I am committed to notice, recognize, thank and help her more. Perhaps this “leadership” will encourage my men readers and friends to “follow” my lead. I suspect the results will pay great dividends to both of us.

Regarding my health journey, tomorrow it's a visit to a blood work specialist in northern Utah, on Thursday an evaluation for bone marrow (or stem cell) transplant, implant, therapies and then Friday, back to my new friend Chemo. The weekend will be interesting indeed. Your continued thoughts, prayers and good will be muchly appreciated as I enter this uncharted path. Thanks, in advance!

Remember, lead in truth, love in gratitude and pray in faith.

Onward and upward.

Love, Doug


6 comments:

Anonymous said...

As we just passed the 1 year anniversary of Dream Team session 8, I find myself wanting to come again, to another Dream Team; my soil is better, a more fertile bed for the seeds of dreaming.

I taught at a womens conference a few weeks ago (Fayetteville NC stake), and was so grateful and excited for the opportunity to bear my testimony of dreaming; this tool we've been given to accomplish our purpose. This action word, never thought of before in that context. In the eyes of those noble women was excitement, hope, and a little bit of awe--not at my words, of course!! But at the powerful concept that the Lord would support THEIR DREAMS, as long as they are so aligned with Him.

So, how do we get tested for bone marrow? I would like to be a donor.

Love to yous (you and your beauty MissJ)

Love,
KathyGrove
Dream Team Session 8
May17, 2007

WendyLee said...

Doug, it was so heartwarming and touching to hear your voice on the leaders call yesterday. Heidi, Lisa, Kristin and I were emailing each other saying how great it was. I noticed how alive and full of energy you sounded. More than you have in many many calls. So awesome!

Love,
Wendy L. Clifton
A Diamond in the rough

Anonymous said...

Best wishes this week with your specialists, you are in our prayers.
Nikole Terry and Family

Jen Carpenter said...

Doug,

My prayers and thought are continually with you and your family. Your writings of inspiration bring peace to me, and I thank you for the joy of Heritage that you've brought into my life. Best of luck with your week this week, know you are thought of and prayed for on a daily basis!

Much love,

Jen Carpenter

Marshyl said...

Dad,

I just realized that I have a lot in my mind and sometimes it comes out as a flood rather than in trickles or drips. I'm sorry for creating some pretty long comments, but I feel it is often easier to get thoughts out in written form than in spoken.

I continue to be amazed at your prowess for profound thoughts and motivating/inspiring wisdom. Tonight was no exception. There's no wonder you have left thousands awe inspired by your gift of speech--whether written or oral. I hope to be able to inspire to action and change for good with those around me the way you have with so many--myself included.

Thank you for all of my life--for raising, counseling, inspiring, supporting, loving, teaching, disciplining when necessary, and always seeing and believing in the good in me that often I was too blind to see in myself. I'm sorry for my rebellious, and foolish ways of the past and grateful for the many years of patience and inspired counsel that left lasting impressions and have helped shape the man I am becoming. Truly you are a hero--my Super Dad.

I hope to be able to lead, inspire, serve and love those around me in the way that you have done for countless others.

Love,

Marsh

Becky said...

I have to agree with Kathy. My Dream Team experience was truely amazing and I would love to come again someday. Doug you have a gift for teaching, and inspiring, and you are truely setting a great example during this ordeal. I love your optimistic outlook on life and your desire to uplift others and learn and grow through it.

It's interesting that I've had some very different trials in my life right now, and then I came to check on you through your blog, and you inspire me to "take up my yoke" and do my best to carry my load and to show others (my children) how to do it too... and how to find joy in the journey.

Thank you for always teaching and inspiring me. You and your family are all so amazing.

My prayers are always with you.
Love,
Becky Evans